advice on relationships: Have you ever loved someone but you messed up your relationship? well i did. a way to know if that person will ever take you back you need to seriously apologize. know your love's love weaknesses and use them against him/her. if you want him/her back. take responsibility in what you've done. chances are he/she will understand.

Rob Writes: I have been with my girlfriend for over two years. It was wonderful before, but I feel like things have definitely changed recently. She went away for the entire summer, and we had become very distant; now that she's back, I feel like our relationship is strained and forced (at least from my point of view). We constantly fight and argue, then make up. I know this is not a h... read more »

CAN MONEY BUY LOVE? ROGER WRITES: I have just spent the last two years with a girl. She was a virgin when I met her. I treated her really well and I spent lots of money on her trying to keep her happy but she just dumped me without any warning. I thought the sex was good and I don't understand what happened! Recently she has been posting stuff on the Internet claiming that I raped her... read more »

Boys can be difficult to read, the whole time that you think that they are thinking about you, they are really thinking about her! It is important to remember that a boy "friend" will ever only be a "friend", yes you may have sex and you may make out but he will always only think of you as a friend. Why? Boys are more likely to be attracted to others and call their less... read more »

When is the best time to take a relationship to the next level? When should you go from just seeing each other to seeing only each other? Most importantly, when does your infatuation turn into real love? A few steps will get you on your way to making this important life decision. Give it time. Whenever you first begin a relationship, even a casual one, it's easy to think that the feel... read more »

Should I or Shouldn't I - Rekindling an old flame This is a question that nearly everyone will face at some point in their lives - asking themselves what if's, what could have been's, and what exactly did I give or let get away. The greatest difficulty you will face when evaluating your thoughts and feelings in this area are, surprisingly enough, your own thoughts and feeli... read more »

"One of your friends is dating the guy you like." See its necessary to understand that for a relation it should be yes from both sides. In love one can never be forced. If he feels for her then you should forget him and move on in life, and if he is just friends, then you should try the best to be with him. I would suggest the following ideas, out of which one might help you. 1. Unde... read more »

Advice on First Dates She finally said yes to go out with you after countless times of nagging her, congratulations. Now you have to make up all the nagging with a date that will leave her in awe. By awe I do not mean to pick her up at 7pm, take her to a fancy expensive dinner and then a movie. How generic is that? I have no statistics but I am sure about 80% of dates follow this procedure a... read more »

Introduction Online dating has become more and more popular with computers being used more. People use online dating because either they can't find that special someone around their area, they are too scared to approach someone in person, or they just want to extend their scope of meeting people. There are many great advantages to online dating, with the few disadvantages as well. I have ... read more »

Well the type of flirting you should do depends on the qualities possessed by each party. For the sake of this advice, I'll imagine you and this guy have about equally 'average looks' meaning you both are not fat yet you both are not beautiful and are hopefully 30 or younger because I'm 22 and I don't date too many people over 30 :p First off though, I want to emphasi... read more »